Things to Do Before Sex
What You Can Do
- Groom down there
- Purchase the needed items to practice safe sex.
- Take a bath or shower.
- Consider getting sexy clothes if this will increase your confidence.
Emotional Readiness
- Assess if you have feelings for your partner.
- Relax.
- Are you willing to go through how people will scrutinize you for having premarital sex?
- Will you be ready to accept things if it ends?
Mental Readiness
- Talk to a parent or a guardian that you can trust.
- Talk to the doctor about your plan to have sex.
- Understand that sex is not only about “penetration.”
- Be familiar with what makes you feel pleasure.
Things to Buy
Massage Oils
- Coconut Oil
- Jojoba Oil
- Sunflower Oil
- Almond Oil
Lubricants
- Oil-Based
- Water-Based
- Silicone-Based
- Petroleum Based
Contraceptives
- Female Condoms
- Pills
- Contraceptive Implant
- Contraceptive Injection
Clothes
- Something comfortable
- Swimwear if you are going swimming
- Wear clothes that make you feel good.
Food
- Walnuts
- Oysters
- Chocolates
Fruits
- Strawberries
- Watermelon
- Avocado
Time
- Breakfast run
- Mid-morning or mid-afternoon
- Dinner time
Gifts
- Games
- Lighter
- Outdoor items
Fashion
- Lingerie
- Sexy underwear
- Lace brassiere
Beauty Items
- Perfume or cologne
- Lotion
- Flavored lipgloss
What to Do During Sex
- Be comfortable in asking questions
- Do not be afraid to state if something feels good
- Remember that sex is not supposed to hurt
- Do not feel too self-conscious about how you look
- If you bleed, do not immediately panic.
Sex Positions
- Missionary
- Sitting on Pillow Top
- Woman on Top
- Side Cuddle
- Duo
Assessment After Sex
- You do not have to tell anyone about it unless you want to.
- Pee after sex as it will be safer for you.
- Properly discard used protection.
- Give and get feedback.
- Do not compare your experience with anyone else.
